How often do you ask yourself:
- What do I wish to do?
- How do I wish to feel?
- What would happen if I do not do something?
- What would happen if I do something?
- What am I willing to give?
- What are my demands and boundaries?
Can you enter in relationships in such a way to lay all your cards open and talk about this things openly? Or do you follow the undercover games in which you do not know where are they going? Where you always have the question of what is happening on the other side. And If you look closer we have the same reaction and the same way of entering a relationship. No matter what kind of relationship it is. If it is applying for a new job, knowing new people, or entering a romantic relationship. But why are we all doing this?
Are we true to our self
Fear of being hurt and desire to be master of the game, to be the one to have the power to run the game is one of the needs that we have. But we sometimes forget that playing games. If you not to reveal true YOU, means disappointment a long run. Which is not always a disappointment on the other side, most often that means disappointment on our side because we are doing two things at the same time.
We are living in a fantasy world that we created on one side and having revealed expectations on `the other side and I do not need to make it any more clear that everybody knows about you, your plans, desires, and limitations just as much that you tell them about it.
And I know that is hard to be completely honest with people especially if emotions come in between however I do believe that we can all be true to our self and we can answer on questions above to our self and know in yourself what is ok for you and what isn`t.